Michael Barkon
January 22, 2025, Passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family.
Beloved only child of the late Melvin Barkon and Anabel (née Stoltz) Barkon. Loving husband of Judy (née Withers) Barkon for 57 years. Dear father of Melissa (Dan), Heather (Myles), and Rebecca. Adoring grandfather of Dylan, Ryan, Devon, Lauren, Brandon, Melissa, Ellen and Anabel. Beloved great grandfather of Olivia, Mabel and baby girl on the way. Dear cousin and friend.
Michael was a lifelong learner and educator, having earned degrees from the University of Missouri in Columbia and the University of Missouri in St. Louis. He was a teacher for the Hazelwood school district for 30 years, and while teaching and after retirement, received many letters from other teachers and his students, thanking him for his dedication. After retiring, his teaching continued with the National Museum of Transportation and Trails and Rails, which is part of the National Park Service. As a volunteer with the National Park Service he received numerous awards, including the President’s Volunteer Service award. Throughout his career as an educator he would collect items and build models so that people would have a hands-on experience to make history more tangible. Mike was a great lover and scholar of history and was a member of several reenactment groups. He truly believed in living history.
Mike was kind and generous to everyone…and we do mean everyone. No one was a stranger, and he was always interested in hearing people’s personal stories. He was devoted to his family, and nothing made him happier than to have his wife and daughters and extended family around him. When visiting someone he would bring a gift, especially for children. He was a slow walker, but mysteriously this trait would disappear if there was something of particular historical importance ahead. He would tell stories about his younger years in fantastic detail. Many of the escapades he described from his college years seemed almost unbelievable, as if they were from a movie. But, because we knew Mike, we knew the stories had to be true.
Some years ago Mike saw this poem by Robert Burns and wanted it to be shared when he passed.
An honest man here lies at rest, The friend of man, the friend of truth; The friend of age, and guide of youth: Few hearts like his, with virtue warm’d, Few heads with knowledge so inform’d: If there’s another world, he lives in bliss; If there is none, he made the best of this.
Funeral service Friday, January 24, 11:00am at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery Mausoleum Chapel, 8430 Gravois Road, St. Louis, MO 63123. Visitation with the family beginning at 10:30am until time of service. Contributions in Mike’s memory may be made to the Gateway Arch National Park Service (https://www.nps.gov/getinvolved/donate.htm) or to the National Museum of Transportation (https://tnmot.org/donation-policy/).
Max Bridge
Max was born on March 6, 1939, to Jessie and Sam Bridge in Lyons, New York. He graduated from Monroe High School in 1956 and returned to Rochester, NY often to attend his high school reunions. Max went on to earn a B.S. in aeronautical engineering from the University of Michigan and later returned to school to earn an MBA from St. Louis University.
It didn't take long during his freshman year at Michigan before Max met his lovely future bride, Betty. They married before graduating and then following graduation, they moved to the West Coast where Max began his career in the aerospace industry, working for Boeing and Lockheed. In 1966, when the family needed him most, Max willingly sacrificed his engineering career to move to St. Louis to help run the family business. It was at National Auto Supply Company that he would spend the next 35+ years.
Max’s biggest love was spending time with his family, especially his grandchildren. Other hobbies he enjoyed were traveling, golfing, drawing, building model airplanes, and baking. Max and Betty always hosted large gatherings for family and friends where everyone would marvel over Max's homemade desserts. Staying true to his engineering background, Max enjoyed all things science, and he relished the challenge of fixing nearly everything that his wife and five children could break.
Max was an optimist to his core and would often whistle or sing as he went through his daily activities. But most of all, Max was known for his sense of humor and joke telling.
Max Bridge is survived by his wife of 65 years, Betty Silverman Bridge. He was father to Richard (Cindy) Bridge, Robert (Becky) Bridge, Jennifer (John) Zensen, Gary (Marie) Bridge and Michael (Roxann) Bridge. Grandfather to Lauren (William) Beck, Jack, Taylor, Bailey, Connor, Abbie, Jacob, Sylvia, Josh, Lucille, and Max. Brother to Gerald Bridge and late Jack (z”l) Bridge. He is preceded in death by his parents Jessie (z”l) and Sam (z”l) Bridge.
Funeral service will be held at Congregation Temple Israel on Sunday January 26 at 1:00 p.m. Visitation at 12:30 p.m. Private interment.
In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the American Cancer Society.
The family wishes to extend their gratitude to Mari de Villa and all of their family and friend
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Paula Hertel
March 23, 1942 - February 1, 2025
Paula Fay (Nebolsky) Hertel passed away peacefully on February 1st at the age of 82 after a short battle with cancer. Paula was the beloved wife of Norman Hertel for nearly 58 years; devoted mother of Elana Jean Hertel; daughter of the late Harry Nebolsky and the late Leah (Koolman) Nebolsky; daughter-in-law of the late Emma Hertel; sister of Rita Ann Paradis; sister-in-law of the late Bernard Accardi and Edna Accardi; dog mom to Birdie Girl the Beagle; and a cherished aunt, cousin, teacher, and dear friend to many.
Paula grew up in Cincinnati, Ohio, and was the namesake for her father’s shoe store, Paula Lee Shoes. Her lifelong love of theatre and music began at Woodward High School, where she participated in Choir and Drama Club and was a member of Omega Sigma Phi Sorority.
Paula graduated from the University of Cincinnati in 1964 with an undergraduate degree in Education. She began her teaching career in Ohio while attending a summer program to earn her Master's degree at Indiana University. In the summer of 1966, she met Norman on a Friday, dated him over the weekend, and became engaged the following Monday. It was love at first sight. After marrying in St. Louis at Temple Israel in 1967, Paula moved to Missouri to join Norman, settling into a cozy house and teaching position in Kirkwood. In 1983 Paula and Norman welcomed their daughter, Elana Jean. She was the light of Paula’s life.
Paula enjoyed an accomplished career of 50 years in education, spanning all elementary grades, devoted to the teaching and learning process for both educators and students. Her longest tenure was at Bristol Elementary in Webster Groves, where she taught third and fourth grades, pioneering new methods to teach reading, writing and Missouri History. She was so passionate about innovation in education that she joined the national team writing books on the Success in Reading and Writing curriculum, authoring several books and traveling throughout the country training teachers to cultivate strong learners. Paula and Norman also had a private practice in Clayton as specialists in diagnosing and remediating reading and learning disabilities, shaping the skills and confidence of many children and providing their parents the tools to support their learning styles.
After her retirement from public education in 1999, Paula continued her career in the Jewish sector as Religious School Director at Congregation B’nai Amoona, fourth grade teacher at the Reform Jewish Academy, and Interim Religious School Director at Kol Rinah.
Paula was a long time and involved member at Congregation Shaare Emeth, teaching Religious School for many years, and volunteering in many capacities, including the caring committee, usher corps, purim carnival planning, singing in the choir, and leading interfaith passover seders at churches throughout the city.
Paula was an avid supporter and lover of the arts, frequently attending performances of the St. Louis Symphony, Opera Theatre, and ushering at The Fox Theatre for many years. In retirement, Paula continued to support the arts through her volunteer work at the St. Louis Art Museum, Symphony Volunteer Association, and the Frank Lloyd Wright House at Ebsworth Park.
Paula’s interests and hobbies were broad and included knitting, drawing, playing piano, traveling across the United States and abroad, hosting family and friends at her home, and reading. She was an active member and served as the First Vice President of the Pioneers, the first Jewish women’s book club in the nation, a group that she cherished.
Paula’s vibrant smile and laugh lit up a room. She loved people, truly interested in the story of each person who was fortunate enough to cross her path. She was a master at building community and turning friends into family. She was a joyful, generous, and compassionate woman who will be forever missed.
The funeral will take place Thursday, February 6th, at 11:00 AM CT at Congregation Shaare Emeth, 11645 Ladue Road, followed by interment at Mt Sinai Cemetery. Colorful attire is encouraged in Paula’s honor. The family is grateful to everyone who has expressed love and lent their support during this time.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in Paula’s memory to the St. Louis Symphony: https://slso.org/donate/ , The Frank Lloyd Wright House at Ebsworth Park, https://ebsworthpark.org, or the Ashrei Foundation: https://www.ashreifoundation.org/.
Michael K Watts
February 12, 2025, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family.
Beloved husband of Jo Ellen Watts. Dear father of Billie (Greg) Breen and Christy (Ted) Pusczek. Loving grandfather of Tori (Brad) O’Neal, Abby Breen, Ethan Breen, Corrie Pusczek and Maci Pusczek. Cherished great grandfather of Liam and Piper O’Neal. Beloved brother of the late Vicki Kane. Dear brother-in-law of Charles Martin and the late Robin Martin and Susan Mays. Beloved son of the late John and Billie Jean Watts. Dear uncle, cousin and friend.
Funeral service Monday, February 17, 11:00am at New Mt. Sinai Mausoleum Chapel, 8430 Gravois Road. Visitation with Michael’s family beginning at 10:30am until time of service. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to the Smelly Cat Rescue, 611 Geiser Brook Court, Lake Saint Louis, MO 63367 or to New Mt. Sinai Cemetery, 8430 Gravois Road, Affton, MO 63123.
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Roberta Rae Hitt
July 8, 1943 - June 27, 2021
The Honorable Roberta Rae Hitt, née Greenberg, died peacefully at Mercy Hospital in Festus, Missouri, on June 27, 2021.
Roberta was born in Washington, DC, on July 8, 1943, to Robert Milton Greenberg and Johanna Falletti. She had a pleasant childhood growing up in Washington, DC and in the state of Ohio, where she was active in school and loved learning.
Her drive for education led to a B.A. degree from Ohio Wesleyan University, followed by a Master’s degree from Maryland State University. Roberta received her Juris Doctorate from American University and was admitted to the Bar in the states of Maryland, New York, Missouri and in the District of Columbia. Of particular note, she was admitted to practice before the Supreme Court of the United States.
Roberta had a distinguished career as a civil rights lawyer with the Community Service Administration in Washington, DC, where she was instrumental in implementing the Agency’s affirmative action program.
She married George David Hitt on December 5, 1981, and embraced her role as a mother to David Alexander Hitt and Christopher Duane Hitt.
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Marilyn Joy Sandweiss
March 30, 1929 - March 2, 2025
Marilyn Joy Sandweiss died peacefully in Minneapolis on March 2, following a long illness.
Born March 30, 1929, to Elsie and Morris Glik, Joy grew up in University City, Missouri. She attended Community and John Burroughs Schools, then earned a BA in Education from Vassar College in 1951. The following year she married Jerome Sandweiss, with whom she raised three children. Her husband died in 2013.
Joy built a three-decade-long career in early-childhood education, with a specialty in diagnosing and addressing learning disabilities. Starting at the Washington University Nursery School, she went on to co-chair a pioneering preschool program—sponsored by the National Council of Jewish Women and later incorporated into the federal Head Start program—at the Blewett School in north St. Louis. In the years that followed, she taught at the Miriam School in Webster Groves and co-founded a private learning-disabilities consultation, contracting with Head Start and St. Louis-area schools to support teachers working with special-needs children. In 1970 she helped to establish the University City Children’s Center; she later served as President of its board. Sandweiss later earned an MAT in Special Education at Webster University.
Joy is survived by her children—Kate Sandweiss (Gerald Richman) of Minneapolis; Martha (Marni) Sandweiss, of Santa Fe, NM; and Eric (Lee Ann) Sandweiss, of Bloomington, Indiana—her six grandchildren—Adam Horowitz, Sarah Horowitz, Rachel Richman (Kacie Lindsley), Maya Wolkowicz (David), Noah Sandweiss, and Ethan Sandweiss—as well as two great-grandchildren and her brother Joe Glik’s four children, to whom she remained close throughout her life. The family extends special gratitude to Patty Davies and Virginia Rovainen, her loving caregivers in her final years.
Funeral arrangements will be private; memorial tributes may be directed to the Joy and Jerome Sandweiss Dedicated Scholar Fund at the Scholarship Foundation of St. Louis, the Green Center, Springboard to Learning, University City Children’s Center, or the charity of your choice.
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Dorothy Meyerson
July 20, 1928 - March 14, 2025
Beloved wife of 57 years to the late Charles B. 'Chick' Meyerson; dear mother and mother-in-law of James (Clare) Meyerson of Sunnyvale, CA, Howard (Deena Gannot) Meyerson of El Cerrito, CA and Judith (Steven) Gorin of St. Louis, MO; loving grandmother of Charles 'Carl' Meyerson, Julie Meyerson, Dana (Anushrav Vatsa) Meyerson and Naomi 'Amy' Meyerson, Michael (Meghan) Gorin and Rachel Gorin; great-grandmother of Noah and Connor Gorin; Mother-in-law of the late Cate Meyerson; dear sister of the late Robert 'Bud' (late Jeanette) Meyer; dear aunt of David (Rita Chu) Meyer; teacher, cousin and friend to many.
In 2015, the St. Louis Jewish Light named her an Unsung Hero.
Funeral service Monday, March 17, 1:30 p.m. at New Mt. Sinai Mausoleum, 8430 Gravois Rd. 63123. Visitation from 1 PM to 1:30 PM in the mausoleum.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions preferred to the Miriam School and Learning Center, Missouri Historical Society, or the charity of your choice.
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Dorothy Katz Kissel
September 5, 1930 - February 13, 2025
Beloved wife of the late Wilton W. Kissel. Dear mother of Neil (Tammy) Kissel and Robert (Cindy) Kissel. Loving grandmother of Rachel (Doug) Zahn, Daniel Kissel and Sean (Bronwyn) Kissel. Beloved sister of Helen Bolt and the late Freida Davidson, Rosalie Lazarus, and Alex Katz. Dear great grandmother, aunt, cousin and friend.
Graveside service Friday, March 28, 10:00am at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery, 8430 Gravois Road. Contributions in her memory may be made to Alzheimer’s Association of Greater St. Louis, 11433 Olde Cabin Rd, St. Louis, MO 63141.
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Nancy Rubenstein Baldridge
March 15, 1932 - April 6, 2025
Nancy Rubenstein Baldridge passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 6, 2025 at the age of 93. Devoted mother to Richard (Cindy) Rubenstein and Thomas (Suzanne) Rubenstein; Cherished grandmother of Jonathan (Nia) Rubenstein, Jordan (Alysia) Rubenstein, Julia (Peter) Saunders, Angela (JD) Cook, Kristina (Tyler) Hampton, Tracie Rubenstein and Amelia Rubenstein with 7 wonderful great-grandchildren.
Nancy was preceded in death by her late husband Floyd B. Rubenstein; her parents, Johanna Block Weinstock and Gustave Weinstock; as well as her brother, “Buddy” Gustave Weinstock, Jr. (Ruthie).
Born Nancy Flora Weinstock on March 15, 1932, in St. Louis, MO she was known for her generous spirit and remarkable ability to persevere. She found joy in her family, particularly her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Nancy was an accomplished artist, an avid world traveler and a dear friend.
Her family remembers her as someone who was always happy to hear their thoughts and have long, meaningful conversations. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren are left with fond memories of laughter, all the games we played together, the souvenirs she brought back from her travels with all the life lessons and wisdom that has undoubtedly shaped who they are today. She will be profoundly missed.
In lieu of flowers, the Rubenstein’s request that donations be made to The National Psoriasis Foundation. Services will be private.
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Amy Ginsberg
July 6, 1982 - April 30, 2025
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved Amy Michele Ginsberg on April 30, 2025, at the age of 42. Cherished daughter of Wendy Ginsberg, preceded in death by her father, Fred Ginsberg, dear sister and sister-in-law of Keith (Mandy) Ginsberg and Ashley (Tim) Kauffman; loving mother of Abel Ginsberg Hill; aunt of Jacob Ginsberg, Riley Kauffman, Joseph Kauffman and Wesley Ginsberg; cousin and friend to many.
Amy was a free-spirited person who lived to the beat of her own drum. She possessed a beautiful singing voice and enjoyed music and cooking. Much of Amy’s life was plagued by a battle with addiction. This disease, like so many others, can take hold and impact even the most beautiful of souls. While it presented her with immense difficulties, it never fully overshadowed the wonderful person she was. We take comfort in knowing that she is now at peace.
Though her journey was marked by struggle, we will remember Amy for the light she brought into the world and the love she shared. May her memory be a blessing.
Funeral Service Sunday, May 4, 2025, 3:00 PM at New Mt. Sinai Mausoleum, 8430 Gravois Rd. 63123. Visitation from 2:30 – 3:00 PM in the mausoleum.
Memorial contributions are preferred to Hanani House (www.hananihouse.org) or Harris House (www.harrishousestl.org). Visit www.bergermemorialchapel.com for more information.
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Lois C. Levin
April 27, 1928 - May 9, 2025
May 9, 2025, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family.
Beloved mother of Ronald (Anne Carol Goldberg) Levin, Bonnie (Stuart Dybek) Levin, Stephen (Chris Bradshaw) Levin and Lawrence “Larry” Levin. Loving grandmother of Benjamin (Heather) Levin, Mariah Levin, Alexandra Duchowny, Catherine (Zlato Fagundes) Duchowny and Margot Duchowny. Cherished great grandmother of Isabella, Arlo, Ellis and Pearl. Beloved sister of Barbara Edison, and aunt to Robin Edison Harr, Peter Edison and Julie Edison-Carroll.
Lois was born on April 27, 1928 in St. Louis, Missouri to Arnold and Pearl Cohn. She attended Washington University in St. Louis and graduated with a BA in Psychology. She married the love of her life, Marvin Levin, in 1949 and devoted herself to raising their four children. She was an active participant in the Jewish Federation, the Temple Israel Sisterhood, and the Jewish Book Festival. She was an avid reader, a master bridge player and accomplished at beading handicraft.
Lois was known for her graciousness, her wit, unending patience and wisdom. She will be missed by all of her loving family and friends who remember her generosity of spirit and quiet support.
Graveside service: Tuesday, May 13, 1:00pm at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery, 8430 Gravois Road. Following the graveside service there will be a Shiva reception from 4-6pm at The Gatesworth, 1 McKnight Place. Contributions in her memory may be made to the United Way of Greater St. Louis, Attn: Pledge Processing, P.O. Box 795041, St. Louis, MO 63179-0795 or to the Temple Israel Sisterhood, #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive, St. Louis, MO 63141.
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Joanne Kohn
October 15, 1933 - April 14, 2025
Mrs. Kohn grew up in Omaha and attended Central High School, where she was voted “Miss Central,” and met President Truman at the White House when she was elected to represent Nebraska for Girls Nation.
She attended Washington University in St. Louis where she met her husband, trial lawyer Alan C. Kohn, a law student at the time. They wed in 1954.
They lived in Germany while Mr. Kohn served in the Army, then moved to Washington, D.C., where Mrs. Kohn studied theatre at Catholic University while Mr. Kohn served as a clerk at the U.S. Supreme Court.
Starting her work in the arts community in St. Louis in 1958, Mrs. Kohn served at The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis since its inception, including as president of its corporate board.
She was a longtime member of the board of Opera Theatre of St. Louis, and also served in leadership roles for Dance St. Louis, The Sheldon, Grand Center, the Edison Theatre, and the St. Louis Art Museum.
Mrs. Kohn was appointed chairman of the Missouri Arts Council from 1985-89, where she championed arts education and testified before the U.S. Congress to promote funding for the National Endowment for the Arts.
She was also the founding director of the Arts Management and Leadership MFA program at Webster University.
The Kohn family lived in University City until the mid-1970s, when they moved to a contemporary home they built in Ladue.
Mrs. Kohn’s interest in architecture later led to her work to save and restore the Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park, culminating with its opening to the public as a national historic landmark.
Predeceased by her husband in 2019, Mrs. Kohn is survived by three sons and their spouses, and by five grandchildren: Tom and Lisa (Ethan and Grace), Jim and Maria (Alejandro), and John and Angie (Kate and Ava).
A public memorial celebration will be held on Sun., May 25 at 2 pm at the Farrell Auditorium at the St. Louis Art Museum. Reception to follow for friends and family. Garage parking available.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to Opera Theatre of St. Louis, the Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park, or The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis.
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Robert Paul Bohm
07/01/1939-07/05/2025
Robert Paul Bohm, 86, of St. Louis, Missouri, passed away after a brief illness, leaving behind a legacy of love, dedication, and a strong work ethic that touched everyone who knew him.
Bob was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, to the late Arthur and the late Helen Jane (Rosenblum) Bohm, the oldest of three children. Growing up in Shorewood, he developed lifelong passions for sports, friendships, and meticulous organization. A proud graduate of Shorewood High School, Bob earned a degree in economics from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where he was a member of AEPi. During his sophomore year, while working as a waiter in a private dorm, he met a freshman from St. Louis, Nancy Kaminer, who would become the love of his life for the next 67 years.
After college, Bob served two years in the U.S. Army as a military police officer in Chicago. He and Nancy settled in St. Louis, where Bob began his career at New Era Shirt Co., eventually serving as Secretary of the Board. He later worked at Ropak and Smith-Scharff, rising to the position of Vice President, before founding Gateway Marketing, which he ran until his retirement. Bob was always known for putting a tremendous amount of energy into his work and for delivering on his promises, earning the respect and trust of both colleagues and customers.
Bob cared deeply about giving back to his community. When his children were young, he served as Cub Master of Troop 569 and as President of the Olivette Athletic Association, ensuring every child had the chance to play. Later, he volunteered as a docent at the St. Louis Zoo, with the Chesterfield Police, and as a Volunteer Advocate for Voices for Children, helping to secure permanent homes for children in foster care. Together with Nancy, he hosted international students at WashU, reflecting his lifelong commitment to education and opportunity.
Bob was deeply devoted to his family and took great joy in supporting his grandchildren’s activities, attending countless games, concerts, and events to cheer them on and share in their accomplishments. His enthusiasm for sports, especially his beloved Green Bay Packers, was a constant throughout his life and something he loved sharing with his family. Bob also loved attending high school reunions, both his own and Nancy’s.
Bob's warmth and genuine ability to form connections created many lifelong friendships. He maintained ties from his Shorewood and Wisconsin days while also forming new friendships through travel, including a memorable trip to China, where he created bonds that lasted a lifetime.
Bob is survived by his beloved wife, Nancy (Kaminer) Bohm; his children, Michael Bohm and Julie (Scott) Cohn; daughter-in-law Marissa Bohm; his cherished grandchildren Adam, Jeremy, and Ellie Cohn, and Nicole Bohm; and his brother-in-law Terry Johnson and sister-in-law Catherine (the late Dr. Hillard) Cohen. He was preceded in death by his parents, siblings James (the late Sue) Bohm and Edith “Peggy” Johnson, and a son, Richard Bohm.
Funeral service Tuesday, July 8, 12:30pm at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery Mausoleum Chapel, 8430 Gravois Road. In lieu of flowers, donations in Bob’s memory may be made to Evelyn’s House, Siteman Cancer Center, or a charity of your choice.
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Neil Handelman
09/30/1935-07/25/2025
Neil Handelman, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and lifelong St. Louisan, passed away peacefully on July 25, 2025 at the age of 89. He was the beloved husband of Natalie Handelman (Oxenhandler) for 68 years, proud father of four daughters, and the heart of a large and loving family.
Born to Lester and Frieda Handelman in 1935, Neil was the eldest of three sons. He grew up in University City and later Ladue, attending Clayton High School, where he captained the baseball team and made lifelong friends. After graduating from the University of Missouri, Neil served with honor as a commissioned officer in the U.S. Navy, most notably a deployment aboard the USS Wiltsie in the Western Pacific.
Following his service, Neil returned to St. Louis to join the family business, California Manufacturing Co. He worked alongside his father and brothers for nearly 50 years, becoming President and having the opportunity to work alongside the third generation for decades more. His leadership helped grow the business into what is now known as CMCBrands, a legacy that thrives from his guidance.
Neil met the love of his life, Natalie, as a teenager. After admiring her on the Meadowbrook Country Club diving board, he declared, at just 15 years old, that he would one day marry her. Together they built a joyful life rooted in family, tradition, and laughter. They raised four daughters—Ellen, Mary, Janie, and Sara—and created a home that became the hub for Sunday night dinners, holiday gatherings, and countless shared memories. Neil was an engaging father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, always quick with a joke, armed with a story, and ready for a friendly competition.
In addition to his family, he was an avid St. Louis Cardinals, Rams, and Blues fan. He enjoyed root beer floats, playing golf, and his position as the founding member, and-One-Time-Champion, of the “Handelman Fantasy Football League”.
In his community, Neil was a committed volunteer and supporter of causes close to his heart, including an endowed Parkinson’s Research Fund at Barnes Jewish Hospital. He was the President and a longtime Board Member of Congregation Temple Israel and served as Board President of New Mt. Sinai Cemetery. Neil also spent his retirement years as a docent at the St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum.
Neil is survived by his wife Natalie; daughters Ellen Brin (Bob), Mary Rosenblum (Rob), Janie Spirtas (Eric), and Sara Bernstein (Jeff); sixteen grandchildren ; nine great-grandchildren; and his brother Gary Handelman. He was preceded in death by his parents, Lester and Frieda Handelman, his brother Howard Handelman and sister in laws Alice and Ronni.
Neil said marrying Natalie was the best decision of his life. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him. His family finds comfort in knowing that his integrity, love, and family unity will continue as his legacy. May his kindness, guidance, and witty stories live in our hearts forever.
Visitation Tuesday, July 29th, 10:30 AM at the New Mt. Sinai Mausoleum, 8430 Gravois, followed by funeral service at 11:00 AM. Visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information,
Memorial contributions may be made to the Natalie and Neil Handelman Parkinson’s Research Fund at The Foundation for Barnes Jewish Hospital, 1001 Highlands Plaza Drive W, Suite 140, St. Louis, MO 63110-9333, Congregation Temple Israel, The Natalie and Neil Handelman Endowment Fund for Temple Life, P.O. Box 790379, St. Louis, MO 63179-0379 or a charity of your choice.
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Joan Loewenstein
October 13, 1929 - November 15.2024
Born in South Bend, Indiana to Harold and Esther Nine, Joan was raised on a dairy farm but knew at a young age there was more out there for her. She attended Stephens College in Columbia, MO and graduated with a degree in Fashion Design. From Columbia she moved to nearby St. Louis, MO to start her career. Joan had a wonderful job as a Fashion Coordinator at Boyd’s having many memorable moments. She once bought ties for the store, from a young designer out of the trunk of his car. When she asked his name, he told her it was Ralph Lauren. She bought ties out of the trunk of Ralph Lauren’s car, before anyone even knew who he was. She was also on the team that dressed Sidney Poitier when they were filming the movie In the Heat of the Night across the river in Belleville, IL. A friend fixed her up with a young man named Julian “Jay” Loewenstein, and Joan figured if nothing else she would get fed. Sure enough, Jay took her to dinner and proceeded to win her over. They married two years later and started their family. First a son named T.O. then a daughter, Elyse. Joan and Jay moved a few times to further his career. Cincinnati, Minneapolis, Kansas City and finally Columbus, OH. It never mattered to her. Joan made friends easily and as long as she was with Jay she was happy. The two of them travelled extensively and ended up spending their winters in Costa Rica. They had a lovely condo on the beach spending time there up until Jay passed in 2018. Most importantly Joan loved her family. She is survived by her son T.O. of San Francisco, CA, daughter Elyse and her husband Chris Remick of Columbus, OH, and their children Nicholas in Obituary Joan Loewenstein OCT 13, 1929 - NOV 15, 2024 JoanLoewenstein OCT 13, 1929 - NOV 15, 2024 PAGE 3 OF 5 Miami Beach, FL, Colin in Austin, TX, and Hannah in Charleston, SC. Joan’s grandchildren loved and adored their “Tootsie” and “Bubba”. Joan is also survived by her brother-in-law, Robert M. Loewenstein of St. Louis, MO as well as many nieces and nephews. Joan was a good friend, wonderful mother and even better grandmother. Her family and friends were lucky to have her in their lives. She will be missed
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March 27, 1930 - June 21, 2018
Julian P. “Jay” Loewenstein, 88 passed away on June 21, 2018. He was born on March 27, 1930 in St. Louis, MO to Erwin and Elsie (Chorlinsky) Loewenstein.
Jay will be missed by his wife of 67 years, Joan (Nine) Loewenstein, son T.O. Loewenstein, daughter Elyse (Chris) Remick, grandchildren Nicholas, Colin and Hannah Remick, and brother Robert “Rob” (Marilyn Schear) Loewenstein.
Jay proudly served in the U.S. Navy during the Korean War and was Honorably Discharged as a 2nd Class Petty Officer. For over 50 years he had a successful career in the furniture industry. In 1979, his work brought him to Columbus, OH which became his permanent residence.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to the charity of the donor’s choice.
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Charles "Dick" Richard Horwitz
Jaanuary 7, 1938 - June 8, 2025
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Dick Horwitz. Dick passed away peacefully at Evelyn’s House, a hospice home, on June 8, 2025, at the age of 87. Born in 1938, Dick was a devoted husband to his wife, Sherry Miles, a loving father to Lou and his pre-deceased son Joe and stepdaughters Cindy McElhiney (Nick) and Laurie Goldberg, and a wonderful brother to Bill Horwitz.
A lifelong resident of St. Louis, MO, Dick was known for his kind heart, gentle manner, quick wit, and passion for tennis. He was elected to 4 Tennis Halls of Fame – two national, and two local. He played against many of the greats including Jimmy Connors, Arthur Ashe and Billy Jean King, and was later a tennis pro at Bellerive Country Club. He also taught tennis to St. Louis Cardinals owners, managers, and players. His late aunt Mildred Neuman created the Dick Horwitz Maccabi Scholarship Endowment Fund to celebrate his accomplishments in the sport.
Dick studied at Yale University and graduated from Washington University; taught English for 8 years at Country Day School; and worked for many years in the family business, Blustein’s Bridal House wedding gown business in downtown St. Louis, started by his grandmother in 1918.
Dick loved books, movies, the St Louis Cardinals, and Colorado, where he was a part-time resident for 15 years. He leaves behind a family who loved him deeply and will miss him for the rest of our days.
A private family graveside service will be held. Tributes can be made to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society or the charity of your choice.
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Marilyn Schlitter
April 10, 1936 - July 24, 2025
Beloved wife of James D. Schlitter; loving mother of JoAnne Levy (Jim Thomeczek), Ellen Sue Levy (Carl Desenberg), Jerry Lundsgaard, Nancy Levy, David Levy (Stephanie Kurtzman) and Alex Schlitter (Tave Hollins); proud grandmother of Samantha Wendling (Mickey), Jake Thomeczek (Kate), Jerry Thomeczek (Sydney Hoffman), Mari Thomeczek, Josh Thomeczek, Miranda Levy Siwak, Bradford Levy Siwak, Lathan Levy, Ansel Levy and Hanya Levy; doting great-grandmother of Brennan, Luca and Teddy Wendling; cherished sister and sister-in-law of Edgar Newstadt (Barbara) and Mitch Newstadt (Mollie); dear aunt, cousin, and friend.
Funeral service Monday, July 28, 2025, at 11 AM at the Mausoleum at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery, 8430 Gravois. Visitation begins at 10:15 AM. Graveside burial follows at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery. Shiva on Monday, July 28 from 4-8 pm and on Tuesday, July 29 from 5-8 pm at the home of Jim Thomeczek and JoAnne Levy, 416 Berkley Place Court, Olivette, Missouri, 63132. Memorial contributions preferred to Congregation Temple Israel or the Alzheimer’s Association. Please visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. BERGER MEMORIAL SERVICE
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JoAnne Bronstein
June 1, 1944 - July 27,2025
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Dr. Allen S. Palmer
October 28, 1939 - August 1, 2025
Dr. Allen Stuart Palmer, a longtime St. Louis OBGYN, passed away peacefully on Friday, August 1, at his home in Clayton. He was 85. He served generations of women with involved, personal care rooted in respect and advocacy.
Dr. Palmer delivered thousands of babies in St. Louis throughout the 1970s, 80s, and 90s, primarily at Normandy Osteopathic Hospital and Christian Hospital, often before sunrise and sometimes while his own children waited at the hospital. He was deeply committed to women’s health and believed in treating every patient with dignity and respect. He didn’t just practice medicine for women—he stood up for them. He stood up for women’s rights, even jeopardizing his own safety. He was a champion of women and reproductive rights for women in Missouri and Illinois. For decades, he fought tirelessly for women and aptly named his medical practice Women’s Care. He loved to tell people how he marched in Washington during Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s “I Have a Dream” speech, a moment he carried with pride and conviction.
He leaves behind his beloved wife, Diane Palmer (Michler). He is also survived by his children Jordan (Leigh), Scotty (Dana), and Cindi Shore (Palmer), as well as his grandchildren Mallory, Max, Dylan, Jade, Ellie, Jacob, and Katie. He was predeceased by his parents Joe and Minnie, his sister Joyce, and brothers Terry and Richard.
Dr. Palmer was a standout high school athlete, a dedicated professional, and a proud member of the Jewish community. He and Diane were longtime season ticket holders for the St. Louis Blues and Steamers, and previously the Rams, cheering loudly from the stands for decades. Every New Year’s Day, he hosted a long-running party at home where he served homemade steak soup to friends and neighbors, who gathered to share conversation and watch college football on rented projection TVs—before big screens were common.
Visitation will take place Wednesday, August 6, from 12:15 p.m. to 1:00 p.m. at Berger Memorial Chapel, 9430 Olive Boulevard in Olivette, followed by the funeral service at 1:00 p.m. Burial will follow at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery. The service will also be livestreamed. Donations in his memory may be made to the St. Louis Jewish Light at stljewishlight.org/donate.
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Yehuda Novick
January 1, 1950 - August 9, 2025
It is with deep sorrow and heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved father, grandfather, and husband, Yehuda Novick. Yehuda passed away peacefully on Saturday, surrounded by family, after a life filled with love, curiosity, and accomplishment.
Yehuda was born on January 1, 1950, in Haifa, Israel, to Miriam (Yagodnik) and Zelig Novick, their only child. He attended elementary and high school in Kiryat Haim and went on to earn a Bachelor’s degree in Accounting and Economics from the University of Haifa, where he was the first student ever to achieve a perfect score in the Microeconomics course. Yehuda practiced as a certified public accountant for many years.
In 1973, Yehuda married Rachel (Ukleisky), whom he met while studying mathematics. They settled in the Neve Sha’anan neighborhood, where they welcomed their two daughters, Noa Bar-Ness (Eitan) and Hagit Sagi (Shay). They later divorced .
In 1996, Yehuda relocated to the United States, where he met his second wife, Andrea Barnes, with whom he shared the remainder of his life. He continued his career in accounting and maintained his passion for technology and computers, a love he passed on to one of his daughters. Yehuda enjoyed solving crossword puzzles and math riddles, reading books, and participating in Israeli folk dancing.
He was known for his sharp intellect, strong and well-founded opinions, eloquent expression, and remarkable debate skills. Yehuda was a devoted partner, a loving father to his biological daughters and to the children he gained through his marriage to Andrea: Sara Shupe (Scott), Alex Schwartzman (Emilie), Jill Doyle (Sarah) and Mitch Schwartzman (Jessica), and he was a loyal friend. Those who knew him remember a trustworthy man, someone you could always turn to in times of need, who would not only be there for you but would help find a solution.
He leaves behind 12 grandchildren: Yaer, Elya; Yuval, Shahar, Gal; James, Carter, Loreli; Avery, Brooke; Matilda, and Mac.
We will forever cherish the joyful moments we shared with him and hold his memory in our hearts with love and gratitude. He will be deeply missed.
Memorial contributions may be made to a charity of your choice.
Shiva will follow the service and last until 8 PM that evening at the Schwartzman residence, 14312 Millchester Circle, Chesterfield, MO 63017.
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Alan Neuman
Died March 19, 2025
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Sandra Abrams
Died May 18, 2025
Born in St. Louis, Sandra moved to the West Coast 10 years ago to enjoy the mountains, ocean, and sea life. A social worker, Sandra earned a Master’s Degree in Fine Arts from Washington University in St. Louis and Ph.D. in Social Welfare from Columbia University in New York. Her interests included art/painting, political news and history.
Sandra was the sister and sister-in-law of Sally Best and Cathy (Michael) Specter; daughter of the late Harold J. Abrams and the late Lee Abrams Sommer; aunt, great-aunt and friend.
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Mark Turken
Died October 17, 2025
Mark A. Turken passed away peacefully on October 17, 2025, in California surrounded by his loved ones. Beloved husband of Melissa Turken; cherished father of Kim Miller, Tami Sunshine (Brian), and David Turken (Kristina); dear grandfather to Caroline Miller Popdan (Rob), Ella, Lila, and Greta Sunshine, and Jacks Turken
A successful real estate developer whose career spanned more than six decades across St. Louis, Phoenix, and Los Angeles, Mark was highly respected in his industry and admired for his genuine commitment to the communities he helped shape. Beyond his professional accomplishments, he gave generously of his time and resources to numerous charitable causes, reflecting his deep belief in giving back and helping others thrive.
Mark lived a life centered on family, friendship, and love. He was deeply devoted to those he cared for and was known for his warmth, humor, and generous heart. Whether sharing stories, telling jokes, or enjoying time with loved ones, Mark touched countless lives with kindness and sincerity.
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Suzanne Lasky
Died October 15, 2025
Suzanne passed away peacefully on her 98th birthday, in Miami, Florida. She was born at the historic Watterson Hotel in Louisville, Kentucky, to the late Joseph and Mildred Feldman. She raised her family in St. Louis, and in her later years travelled back and forth, from St. Louis to Miami, with the care of her daughters, Shelley, Debby, and Nancy.
In 1982, her husband, Alvin Norton Lasky passed on. They shared many loving years of marriage. Three years after he passed, she met Jack Ansehl of St. Louis, MO., and was fortunate to share a devoted partnership of more than 20 years ,and together they traveled the world.
Suzanne was a true Artist, her creativity was boundless. She wore many hats, and was an accomplished painter and Interior designer. After her husband passed, Suzanne volunteered at the Jewish Hospital gift shop as their buyer for many years. She also volunteered for many other organizations in St. Louis. Together with her daughter Nancy, they created Camille Designs Inc. and sold her ribbon knit sweaters, nationally and internationally. Suzanne’s impeccable style and thoughtful eye reflected her deep appreciation and the joy found in everyday life.
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Alan Travis
Died June 7, 2025
Beloved husband of Jo Anne R. Travis for 70 years. Dear father of Helen (the late Danny) Savitzky, Liz (William) Harry and Amy (Tim Blackman) Travis. Loving grandfather of Sophie Travis, Joseph Blackman, Jeremy, Joshua, Jessica and Jennifer Harry. Dear great grandfather of Jesse Harry. Beloved brother of the late Robert (the late Dorothy and the late Gloria) Travis. Dear uncle, cousin and friend.
Alan was an avid cyclist before it was popular and had a great interest in athletics that he passed along to his children. He had a long and fulfilling career as a C.P.A. and was admired by his clients for his knowledge and integrity. Alan enjoyed working with therapy dogs along with his wife.
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Marilyn Weiss
Died October 11, 2025
Marilyn Weiss, October 11, 2025, beloved wife of Carl Weiss; dear mother and mother-in-law of Eric Weiss (Michelle Licudine) and Nikki Reitz (Bob); dear grandmother of Alexander, Isabella, and Liana Weiss and Ben and Becca Reitz; dear daughter of the late Shirley and the late Harold Saphire; dear sister of the late David Saphire (late Sandy) and Richard Saphire (late Patricia); dear aunt, cousin, and friend to many.
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Paul Cahn
Died October 9, 2025
Paul passed away on October 9, 2025. Beloved husband of Elissa; cherished father of Naomi (Tony) and Debra (Art); dear grandfather to Julie (Tobias), Emily (Benjamin), Lauren, Louisa (Trevor), and Abigail; uncle, cousin, and beloved friend to many.
Paul Cahn was born in Mainz, Germany, where his family had lived for three generations. He was the youngest of the three sons of Carl and Marie Luise (Richart) Cahn. Carl was a businessman, and both of Paul’s parents were active in their community.
On Kristallnacht, the synagogue the family attended was destroyed. Carl was deported to Buchenwald, where he was held for three weeks. Paul celebrated his bar mitzvah soon after, in the basement of the Jewish Community Center.
As the situation in Germany became more dangerous, the family enlisted Canadian jeweler William Birks to help them escape. Over a period of months, Birks was ultimately able to persuade the highest levels of the Canadian government to allow the family to immigrate. Finally, the Cahn family was able to escape to Montreal in February 1939.
Paul left high school and began working in the shoe business. He married Elissa Mae Richstone in 1956. After the births of their daughters, the family moved to St. Louis in 1960. He described himself as a “shoe technician,” but he was also a wholesaler, retailer, and entrepreneur. He built several businesses, including Elan-Polo and FootAction, and travelled widely for work.
In addition to his business career, Paul collected silver and Native American textiles. His collections were exhibited at museums around the world, including the Victoria & Albert Museum in London and the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York. He served on the boards of the St. Louis Art Museum, Covenant Place, and several businesses. His biography, Paul Cahn Makes His Mark, was a bronze medal winner in biography from the independent Publisher Book Awards in 2009.
Above all, Paul was devoted to his family. He took great pride in the lives of his wife, children, and grandchildren. He treasured the time he spent with them.
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Norman Hertel
Died October 4, 2025
Norman passed away peacefully on October 4th at 93 years old. He was the devoted husband of Paula Hertel, of blessed memory, for nearly 58 years; beloved father of Elana Jean Hertel; son of the late Emma Hertel and the late William Hertel, son-in-law of the late Harry Nebolsky and the late Leah (Koolman) Nebolsky; brother of Edna Accardi, brother-in-law of the late Bernard Accardi and Rita Ann Paradis, dog dad to Birdie Girl the Beagle; and a cherished uncle, cousin, teacher, and dear friend to many.
Norman grew up in Glendale, Queens, New York. After losing his father at a young age, he was raised by his mother Emma, surrounded by a close-knit extended family. Norman was a Boy Scout and a football player, and as a teenager, worked as a page at NBC. He fondly remembered playing stickball, singing on stoops, and taking trips into Manhattan for a show and a meal at the Automat with his mother.
In 1951, at the age of eighteen, Norman enlisted in the U.S. Air Force and, during the Korean War, was stationed in England as a Clerk on the 3rd AF at RAF Base South Ruislip near London. During his time in the service, Norman traveled extensively in Europe, sparking a lifelong love of travel and European history. He was honored with a National Defense Service Medal and a Good Conduct Medal.
When Norman returned from overseas, he joined his mother and sister Edna, who had moved to St. Louis when Edna started her family.
He became an officer in the Kirkwood Police Department where he proudly served from 1956-1962. In 1957, Norman became Kirkwood’s first juvenile officer, one of only three in the St. Louis area. Well ahead of his time, he developed a program to prevent juvenile crime by cultivating relationships with teens, speaking in elementary school classrooms, and helping parents navigate their children’s challenges. During this time, Norman became ensconced in the Kirkwood community. He bought a home on Grandview Drive, was named Man of the Year, and served as chairman of an early Greentree Festival. Inspired by his work with youth, Norman earned his B.A. from Washington University in 1960, beginning an accomplished career in education as a teacher, and then a principal in the Kirkwood School District.
In the summer of 1966, as Norman pursued a Masters in Education at Indiana University, he met Paula on a Friday, dated her over the weekend, and proposed the following Monday. It was love at first sight. After marrying in St. Louis at Temple Israel in 1967, Paula joined Norman in Missouri.
Norman continued his career in education, leading the “Teacher Trainer of Teachers” program at Washington University, founding Hertel and Associates with Paula, consulting with families to test for and remediate learning disabilities, and teaching in Webster Groves and later St. Louis Public Schools. Together, Norman and Paula published two books on “special learners” for teachers and parents.
For many years, he was “Uncle Norman” to his nieces, nephews, and close friends’ kids– a larger than life presence with his broad smile and signature “silly” handshake. He was, memorably, always willing to wrestle with the rowdy boys.
When Norman was 50 years old, he and Paula welcomed their daughter, Elana Jean. She was the light of Norman’s life.
Norman was a devoted husband. He loved and respected Paula and championed her in all of her professional endeavors and many hobbies. They created a whole world together, turning friends into family, sharing many interests, and establishing themselves as pillars of the St. Louis community. They were avid supporters and lovers of the arts, frequently attending performances of the St. Louis Symphony, Opera Theatre, and ushering at The Fox Theatre.
Norman was a long time and involved member at Congregation Shaare Emeth, teaching Religious School for many years, and volunteering in a wide variety of capacities, including the caring committee, usher corps, Purim carnival planning, the Religious School board, and leading interfaith Passover seders at churches throughout the city.
Norman was a wise and worldly presence in the lives of his loved ones. Throughout his long life, he sought depth and breadth of knowledge, built and served his community with generosity, and above all, was a source of unending support and love to his family.
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Jan Ilaine Vittert
March 18, 1960 - August 29, 2025
Jan Ilaine Vittert, age 65, of Sarasota, Florida passed away on August 29, 2025. Born on March 18, 1960 in Saint Louis, Missouri. Jan was a beloved daughter, sister, aunt, and friend.
Jan is survived by her father, Bruce Vittert; brother and sister-in-law, Jeff and Leigh Vittert; sister and brother-in-law, Amy and Jonathan Deutsch; nephews and nieces, Kevin Vittert, Samantha and Brandon Lee, Allison and Keeler Patton, Chloe Deutsch and Maggie Deutsch. She was preceded in death by her mother, Miriam “Mimi” Vittert.
Known for her smile and sense of humor, Jan will be deeply missed by her family and friends. Jan was a proud resident of St. Louis for many years and a graduate of Ladue Horton Watkins High School and Drake University. She spent much of her life in sales. Jan was an exceptional and gifted salesperson. She volunteered her time over the years to both local food pantries and the library. Jan had a warm demeanor and could strike up a conversation with anyone. She was always up for a chat and was wonderful and caring to all her friends that became like family. Jan had been ill for a long time and dealt with each health challenge with strength, humor, and positivity. She loved movies, books, her cats, iced tea in a huge mug and a great breakfast spot with family or friends. Jan will be remembered with love by her family and all her friends.
A private family service was held at New Mt. Sinai Cemetery Mausoleum Chapel. Memorial contributions can be made to the charity of the donor’s choice or PJ Library (https://pjlibrary.org/donate) as a means of supporting Jan’s love of reading that also helps pass on the Jewish traditions, values, and customs to future generations.
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